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I am trying this one last time, I know your out there, somewhere. I am an Ambivert. I donâ??t fit into any theorized group nicely. I am ambidextrous, I am analytical with artistic characteristics. I can keep my own with the rich and the poor. I can walk through the tough part of town and not be scared but can feel my eyes water from an emotional story of love. I am the life of the party but I am not the party. I am who you think I am and I am who you think I am not. I am not mysterious and I am not open. I am the nerd and the jock. I am a loner who doesnâ??t want to be alone. I am a loser and I am not. I am average or am I?
I am a loving man with a deep caring sense. I love my family and I care for the well being of all people. I have volunteered for many great organizations to help them help others. I want to find happiness, I want to grow with someone, I want to travel and see sights while holding hands with someone I love.
I am a handy man, I believe I can do anything but I am very humble about it. I am currently spending my time fixing up my house. I am looking for someone who will help me make it into a home.

I love to laugh and make others laugh with me, I find humor in everything and that is reason enough for me to try anything at least once. I love being spontaneous and doing anything to break the doldrums. I love talking and spending time with fun people in any situation. We only live once, right? Meeting new people is a great opportunity and I almost never miss a chance to make a friend or maybe more. I love animals and nature as much as any city guy can, I take most every opportunity I can get to get away and enjoy whatever I can outside of my normal life. I like to kick back and watch TV or a movie or just lay around and enjoy what peace I can. Only problem is sometimes my movies require a snuggle buddy. I'd love to meet you and make you smile, don't hold back that cute/dorky side either. What's the point in anything if you can't be yourself?

I'm 21 years old and I am living in St. Paul right now. I love attention and can never get enough of it. I adore little kids. I am going to be a teacher when I graduate; I used to really want to teach kindergarten but now I think 4th or 5th grade might be fun...all I know is that I don't want to teach kids older than 6th grade. I know I am tall and I know my hair is long, I hate when people feel the need to tell me either of those. I used to have pink extensions in my hair but people always had to point out the fact that I had pink in my hair, it got annoying so I took them out and now just have brown hair. My mom and sister are two of the most important people in my life, that's not to say I dont have a dad or my parents are divorced, I am just not a daddy's girl and I haven't been since I was about 2. I am a really really picky eater and it drives people crazy. Pomegranites are my favorite food; when they aren't in season, chocolate is my favorite thing to eat. I usually know how to get what I want. I am obsessed with the color pink. I love to watch soccer and hockey but I don't play any sports. The Minnesota Wild is my favorite team ever. I love country music, WE Fest is the highlight of my summer. I also like other kinds of music. I love going out to Spin Nightclub on Thursday nights when I don't have too much homework, but my favorite club is the 90's on Sunday nights, if you haven't been there you should at least try it once. I am really shy at first but after I know people for about 5 minutes, my crazy side shows through. The most unattractive thing a guy can do is chew tobacco, a close second is smoking; if you do either of those, stay away from me. Finally, I'm obsessed with myself...like it or love it.

My name is AJ and I recently moved to St. Paul-ish area. I don't know much about the area at all so I'm really, at the moment, looking for a nice guy to show me around a bit.

I already have a Bachelor's degree but I moved here to go back to school and become certified in ASL. I have many goals and I am already in the process of achieving them. A little bit about myself:

I'm a blunt woman who for the most part knows what I want. I'm honest and don't like drama. Confident but like any normal woman I have insecurities but I can admit to them and I embrace them. I work hard at the things I set my mind to but I am human and need encouragement at times. Overall I am ambitious, smart, quirky, positive, blunt, fun, outgoing, caring kind of gal.

While I am very straight forward I am not snobby or impolite, I enjoy talking to all kinds of people. I like trying new things, enjoy traveling, (and am fairly well traveled at that) am always up for an adventure or making a fool out of myself. I love to tell stories and laugh until my cheeks hurt. I have earned the nickname 'sunshine' on numerous occasions. I can be very bubbly but can still be serious. I have a good sense of humor and more often than not can make someone smile/laugh.

I don't like diamonds and have a high distaste for trendy namebrands. I do like nice things, specifically unique and custom things, but I'm not materialistic. I like second hand shops quite a bit. Hate socks with sandals, and cant hndl it if u typ lke tis! I fully believe in grammar even though spelling may not be my strength, I'm a smart person I expect you to be also.

I am traditional in some sense and very modern in others. I want a career and to earn the bread but I wouldn't mind making it also with some help from my partner. Hope that makes sense. I think I'm a pretty open minded person.

However I'm not in ANY kind of hurry to find someone. I'm more of a low pressure kind of girl, hangout and see if something develops. If not that's okay, if so, that's cool too. I expect to be treated very well by the person I choose to have in my life, like any lady should be, and I'm willing to be patient to find that. Likewise I will treat you very well also. Overall I expect to treat others as I would like to be treated, especially in romantic relationships.

I am okay with who I am, who I have become, and who I may become in the future. I think it's pretty cool being me :}

I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together. See how they run like pigs from a gun, see how they fly. I'm crying. Sitting on a cornflake, waiting for the van to come. Corporation t-shirt, stupid bloody Tuesday, man you've been a naughty boy, you let your face grow long.

I spend my spare time doing photography, reading, or watching movies. I'm fascinated by the world around me and I try not to take too much for granted. I enjoy my job, and I work hard. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind having a conversation, and has their own passions in life.

First and foremost: I'm a geek. My version of a good time is hanging out with friends, having a good argument, or going out and dancing. I'm not a sporty outdoorsie type, although I enjoy hikes/hiking and bike rides/biking.

More recently I've spent my time trying to teach myself to paint, improve my photography lighting skills, and do a bit of writing. I am also interested in scientific research and general geeking out. All that being said, I think I'm pretty well down to Earth. While I am deeply philosophical, I don't waste my time considering the existence of chairs or who gets to die in a rowboat.

I want to visit Greece. I just decided that.

disc golf, reading...love to read...I'm a bookworm. working, being outside, hanging out with friends, going to shows, the stock market, wall street, am 1500-KSTP, 100.3 KTLK, and long bike trails down the river and anything outdoors.

I am very interested in the news world so i tend to be very passionate about my opinions on certain subjects.

other than that, I would consider myself to be more reserved. i can be quiet at first but that all depends on how comfortable i am. i will leave it at that. :)

I'm an amatuer comic book, novel and other writer who would like someday to do it pro. My dayjob is at wal-mart on the salesfloor. Retail's not all that bad most of the time, but I'd rather write books, comics, plays and short stories. I've only had one girlfriend before, for almost a whole year. I'm still on speaking terms with her as a friend, but there's no chance for romance together again. I'm no longer a virgin, but don't have much experience, so I'd be confident but not cocky. Honestly, I'd like to find my future wife on here, but I'm content to find a few friends, and maybe a girlfriend or lover. If I don't reply or post immediately, it is most likely due to either person issues I am having to deal with, or not at home, so my internet connection may be lessened or gone entirely.

I am a handsome man, currently considering a medical procedure to make myself even more handsome. If I do, I shall be forced to change my name to Hansum B. Wonderful.

I live in Waite Park across from the movie theater. In the time I have lived there, I have seen 4 movies. This is partly because I have developed a pathological hatred of seeing movies in theaters and partly because the bastards won't give me a "good neighbor discount". The stupid jerks.

I once won a vocabulary trophy (Perhaps you heard about it on the news? No? Well it totally happened, I swear!) but I sometimes struggle not to use the F bomb in every other sentence. Have you won at least one spelling bee in your life? That would be sexy.

I can change a flat tire in less than five minutes. I cannot set up a tent. I do pushups every day, but I cheat when I do them.

In short, I'm great.

Hey, my name's Bryant. I like sports, both watching and playing, and I'm a hometown sports fan (Vikings, Twins, Wild, and sometimes Timberwolves, haha). I enjoy going out with friends whenever possible and having a good time. I'm very funny so when you're with me, you WILL laugh, I can guarantee that. Friends and family are very important to me as they should be for everyone.

Well; I enjoy my life and see the good to a fault. All is well,I allow others to be free, consequently I am free. I find the site a great distraction.

I am a person that likes to dabble in many things. I have traveled quite a bit and look forward to many more adventures. I like to dance although I am terrible at it because i have no one to dance with. i guess ill have to practice more. I love white-water rafting, camping, computers and travel. I like many types of music although i am not really "in" to anything. I love listening to talk radio and hearing what other peoples perspectives are. I am a Geek and proud of it. I like to go out because i get stir crazy from being in class all week long. I love going to new clubs because it gets me out of the house i meet new people and i enjoy going to new places. Ive always been fascinated with learning new and interesting facts people call me the king of useless information and have won many bets because of this fact. I am always looking to meet new people so please send me a message even if its just to say HI i don't bite and i would love to make your acquaintance.

Well I am never any good at writing these things. I have been living in Minnesota on and off my whole life. I am very straight forward, I tell it like I see it. I guess i would also say that I am an open book. I will answer any question you might have. I have done good and bad things in my life and I am at peace with who I am. I love my family,but I do not see them as much as I would like. We are spread all over the country and finding the time for us to get together can be a challenge. I do work a lot but I really love my job so it does not seem like work at all. My free time is spent with close friends, who in actuality are my second family.

I'm just a 26 year old guy living back in the cities after college. It's tough making new friends here after college, but I'm giving it a shot. I like to go biking, rollerbladding, and camping in the boundary waters in the summer. In the winter downhill and cross country skiing get me outside, although it would be nice if we could have more than 2 weeks of snow all year! On my own I probably get out once or twice a week, and more than that depends on how much my friends want to do.

In my other free time I like to do the usual sort of stuff - watch movies, browse the internet, learning enough to be decent at swing dancing, listen to music, hang out with friends, go do stuff with an outdoors group.

well my friends call me need and all i need is to laugh if you can make me laugh we can be friends!

**I prefer to get to kno U a lil bit first before deciding to meet - sumtimes that's a few days, sumtimes a few weeks...different w/everyone depending on how often a person communicates so take a lil time n get to kno me**

-->This is a dating site & that's what I'm here for. Hope U understand.<--

My name's Vicky, live in West St Paul. I like younger guys & don't care to chat w/anyone older. Late 30s, single, never married, no kids, (love kids, tho & have NO issues w/single Dads!), 5'8", dark blonde hair mid length, blue eyes, no tatts, ears pierced, 2 Nephews, 2 ferrets (my babies!) I like cuddling, going to movies on opening nite, star gazing, texting, IM, dogs, artichokes, sunshine on my skin, talking on the phone, the lake, freshly baked bread, long drives, dancing, color purple, kissing, smell of fresh cut grass, cold coffee drinks, & the feeling I know someone likes me! I'm more than U probably think I am & I thrive on attention... I'd like to find a guy I can be myself with who accepts me for me.

I am an optimistic Christian, who is loyal, compassionate, caring, respectful, polite, and kind. I enjoy reading the Bible, Theology, Apologetics, and about World Religions.

I play guitar, drums and bass. I was in a band in 1995 called, "Majority Rules," in which we recorded a professional CD that was sold in Best Buy and Target stores. Some of the bands I enjoy are Seventh Day Slumber, Pillar, Falling Up, Red, Kutless, among many others.

I enjoy watching three sports teams the Twins, Vikings and the Broncos.

I can get along with anyone who is reasonable. We do not have to have all of the same interests, foundational beliefs are the most important in any relationship, if you're a Christian this is the most important.

Tina here... you know why is explainig yourself seem to be one of the hardest things to be. It should be the easiest thing if anything because i mean who else do you spend 24/7 with? Well lets see im a line cook at a French Restaurant in Minneapolis. I absolutely love trying new things whether its food, a place, adventure, or music. I usually up for trying something new at least once. You cant knock it till you try it.

I can't remember the last time I said I was bored. (Maybe when I was 10 and my mom made us weed the beans ....) I enjoy life with all its ups and downs. One thing I've learned is that there's always something to learn.

I love being outdoors, especially this time of year. Camping is a favorite activity along with bonfires, walks in the woods (or the city!), and, would you believe (?), mowing.

I often say I have the most amazing friends in the world - because I do. They are smart, caring, responsible, fun, and ... well ... amazing. I'm lucky to have them in my life.

And ... I'm looking for someone special as well. I'd like to hang out, go for coffee (or tea!), take walks, talk, see a movie, explore restaurants and out of the way places, and just see where that takes us.

Reader, writer, but not a mathmatician.... Soul searcher, Ecumenist, Catholic - in the Universal sense.... Pray-er, meditator, believer, acceptor, contemplator.... Artist of fabric, mosaics, cartoons, watercolor.... Admirer of most visual and performing arts.... Car trip singer, choir member, but not a soloist.... Activist, advocate, researcher, learner.... INFP, yet extroverted, intellectual and closure seeker.... Nurturer, nature lover (people, creatures & planet).... Wellness seeker, strength emphasizer, boundary searcher.... Humorist, laugher, occasional practical joker.... Mischievious, yet civil law-abiding.... Geeky, dorky, yet not cheesy....

Hello, thanks for checking out my profile. It wasnâ??t a sudden event, but somehow all of my friends got married or involved in significant relationships. And, in the chaos of work and life, Iâ??ve discovered that itâ??s become harder and harder to meet other singles. So here I am, faced with the daunting task of trying to differentiate myself from a million other suitors and/or profiles. Here we goâ?¦

I donâ??t believe that there is one, single person out there for me, but Iâ??m not interested in dating someone just for the sake of being in a relationship. So here's the bottom line for the type of person I'm looking for... I'm looking for a woman who is thoughtful and cerebral, curious, a good communicator, and cares about things like the environment and social issues. I'd also like someone who will challenge me, keep me in check, and to knock me off my feet once in awhile. If this description sounds like you, please read on! :-)

I am a passionate, 30 year old male who cares a great deal about family, friends, and accomplishing something meaningful in life. My friends and family are very important, and I couldn't live without them. I have a great job that keeps me busy during the week, but in my spare time I like hanging out with friends, keeping up on current events, and being out and about around MSP or other places in Minnesota. I've recently moved back to MSP to take a research position, but I've been in New Mexico for the past two years working on a MA in Experimental Cognitive Psychology. So this means that I probably know way too much about how people think, learn, and make decisions. I'm kind of a nerd/dork, but I hope thatâ??s OK. Life is great, and it would be great to find someone who would make it even better.

This profile is not only merely dead, it's really most sincerely dead. I migrated over to a new profile, <<hoorayforwords>>, so I could start with a clean slate on questions answered, etc.

Dear everyone,
Hi. How are you? Glad to hear. I'm pretty well, thank you for asking. I'm an English major, but since the economy sucks so much now I've been relegated to lifting furniture. It pays the bills. & it's putting some muscles on me, which is handy. I'm interested in hanging out with my friends, watching/playing baseball, reading(almost exclusively fiction), watching movies, spending time outdoors, especially if it involves Flying Frisbee Disc. I'm sure there's some other stuff, but I suppose by now you're either interested or not.

Mein Deutsch ist sehr schleckt, aber ich kann viel verstehen. Ich habe in Deutschland ein Semester studiert und es war viel Spas!

First things first: technically still single but that may be questionable. Time will tell.

Also worth noting: The "other" in my religion bar refers to occult/paganism. My Facebook will tell you I'm "currently accepting applications," because no single religious/spiritual practice in the occult cannon really does it for me so far, and I'm picking/choosing at the moment. Current fixation: Qabalistic Philosophy.

A recent revelation: I hate ballet because it is not fun to do, nor does it feel very good in the body-mind connection. So I am dropping it (was taking it at recommendation of Theater advisor) and pursuing Tai Chi instead.

So back to important stuff. "Nosce te Ipsum." Know thyself. Know myself? Hrm. I think I have a good idea of myself, but knowing is a stretch. I invite people to help figure it out with me but I warn them that it may be very, very frustrating, and encourage the "good idea" approach instead. Scenes of darkness and light both intrigue me. I am a comedian in my head and an author at heart - both love to tell stories and make people happy. I believe that horrible things in our lives can bring us all closer together as a people; as the movie I heart Huckabees cleverly explained, the shit of human drama acts as fertilizer for the growth of our connectedness - I firmly believe that this is the right idea. I may hurt you with what I say because my natural state of inhibition is similar to that of most people after having a shot. Then I'll feel really shitty about it and try to make things right, whenever possible. (See adjective: very empathetic) For the same reason, I also make a great listener / shoulder to cry on / repository for shit you just gotta vent. I can be a lot of things all at once; harmonic death metal like Opeth and light alt rock like Snow Patrol both appeal to me, and sometimes I can see both sides of things so clearly that I run into walls. (Reference: Calvin and Hobbes) I'm a martial artist, I ski, I love video games and anime, and I'm going to college to become an actor/activist for mental health rights.

I've seen a lot, done a lot,and still want more - so what's your story?

I am an inquisitive guy that is always doing too many things at once. I am always learning. I love food and I will try most anything, if people should and do eat it. I love dancing and singing and carrying on. I don't like to go to bed but I love sleeping...ironic huh? I am open minded and tolerant of others...except I am intolerent of intolerance. I am also very fond of puns, mostly bad ones but every once in a while I dig up some golden ones.

I am a self proclaimed nerd girl, completely in love with all things romantic and science fiction/fantasy. I'm cheerful (for the most part), and love all the little beauties in the world. I'm an avid movie watcher, love to read (fluffy stuff, not so much the classics. Yes, I know, shame on me.) I'm going to be a librarian once I get out of college, which is pretty much the ideal job for me. I also enjoy writing, fiction mostly, leaning on the romantic/sci fi side. It will probably never see the light of day, as it has a permanent residence on my hard drive, but I love writing stories just the same.

It's been a while since I've updated this, so I figured I might as well. I hate talking about myself so I'm generally very very bad with these sorts of things.

I am very very shy when I first meet people, almost to the point of it being a personality flaw. However, once I warm up, I'm very laid back and easy to get a long with. I love spending time outside and try to be as active as I can. I love wakeboarding and snowboarding. I also love spending time with my friends and playing with my niece who is currently the love of my life.

I went to school in Winona and am currently about three semesters shy of graduating with an English degree. I plan on going back at some point, but I'm not sure when yet. I want to get some of my debt back under control before taking out even more loans.

I tend to be a very sarcastic individual and this gets me in trouble quite often. However, I am very rarely serious and try to make it apparent when I'm joking. I hate offending people and get very sad when I manage to do so.

I am also very open when it comes to most aspects of my life. I try not to hide anything so I'll answer most any question. That being said, feel free to ask anything.

I don't put up with a whole lot of bull shit when it comes to people and/or relationships. I have had my fair share of bad relationships and even an abusive one and I finally realized that I know what I want and I know what I'm worth. Anything less and it just will not fly with me. So if you like to play games or for whatever reason think that I'm not worth your respect, just leave me alone.

I haven't been on here in a while so I decided to update my profile and check things out again. I haven't had much success with online dating but I enjoy meeting new people. I am originally from Dallas but have called the Twin Cities home for about four years. Sorry, my profile pics are fuzzy. I work in the tech industry and don't have a digital camera..shoot me.

If you know where my "Three Adjectives" are from, message me and I will give you a dollar.

I... am.

Look, I'm not trying to be profound or anything here, I just, I don't know. I like gaming and dancing and webcomics and life and writing and reading and love and sex and real heroes and computers and jewelry and tattoos and piercings. But I figured just listing out crap would be a relatively boring way to summarize myself.

Of course I just did that anyways, dammit!

Well, of course, I can't think of a better way to justify any entry in this particulare textbox of life so I might as well go with what I've got.

Well, I'm not ever sure what to write in these things, so I guess I'll just start with the fact that I'm 22, I go to school, and generally seem to have little to no social life. I'd like to fix that, hence the upgrades to this old thing. I'm also into some very strange things. If you think an intellectual type with some strange twists is someone you'd like to talk with, send me a message, my AIM s/n is SquireDeLacey.

I enjoy the simple things in life, the outdoors, good food, meaningful conversation. I spend alot of time reading, to the detriment of my social life unfortunately. Cheese or anything containing cheese can be listed among my general interests, and although I'm one of the least picky eaters you'll ever meet, I have a profound appreciation for great food. One of my life goals is to write a book, most likely an autobiography. I would love to end up as a teacher in the not so distant future, I love kids and they seem to like me once they get over the height difference. If I can't teach for some reason I'd like to work as a therapist. I like to think of myself as very accepting of all people, regardless of their shortcomings. I can be fiercely independent, but I generally prefer to rely on others, since it reminds me I'm not alone in this crazy journey we call life.

So yeah, my name is Apollo. No its not some random name I use for the interweb, my name really is Apollo. I suck at writing/telling things about myself. I guess I should point at that I am indeed a bipedal vertebrate. Warm blooded and prefers an oxygen rich environment to live in. As it says up there, I'm nocturnal, not due to some outlandish lifestyle, but because I work nights. It pays well and for the time being it works schedulewise. Major fan of sci fi and video games. Star Trek, Stargate, Battlestar Galactica, Star Wars, and Dune are my 5 domains of sci fi which I have a great deal of knowledge of. When it comes to video games I can be found playing first person shooters like halo, fun violent games like God of War, and classic games link Pong. People have refered to me as Sasquatch before based on the fact that I'm fairly tall, and usually seem to be unshaven and scruffy. In the music department, I'm into rock. Eagles are the best in my opinion. Hotel California is made of awesome and win. I also tend to read a lot of books.

Now that I've written this self survey...which wasn't easy cause I don't particularly like writting things about myself, I dont like seeming overly braggy or vain, I'm gonna stop...yeah.

The things I enjoy most is traveling, music and my work. I have traveled all over the world, I enjoy all music besides Phish for some reason I just dont like Phish. I love Hip-Hop recently been listening to a lot of local hip-hop including Atmosphere, Saint and Eyedea. I have the coolest job in the world and I love to go to it. I am a really nice person and I try to help everyone I can.

My name is Quintin and I'm a God fearing young man growing up in a world full of spiritual warfare. It is often that I attempt to do right by God through Christ, and walk the path of a faithful and trusting Christian. Not only do I fear God, but love Him with all of myself. Everyday I vow to put Him first over anyone or anything else.
On another note, I have a passionate love for my family. They're my everything. I'm fun loving, but can have a serious side. I care very much about keeping my hygiene up and my style fresh but diversely unique. I'm usually down for an adventurous time; this includes biking/camping/roller blading at the rink, traveling, and enjoying breezy walks amongst the lakes :-D... I'm a kind and sweet natured person with some morals and a decent head on my shoulders. I can be generous, honest, trustworthy, I have a wacky/goofy sense of humor, caring, quiet, shy depending on the situation, easy going, real laid-back, but somewhat out-going (once again pending on my mood), and just an all around cool person. I take life as it comes at me.

Top 10 Quasi-Relevant Things I want you to know about me:

1. I'll gladly lie about how we met and edit out the part where we were both sad little mammals cruising the web for companions.

2. I'll never suggest that Dr. Phil's latest book could really help you learn to be a better man.

3. I won't expect you to lift heavy objects for me. (But if you do, I will compliment you on your manly nature, and say thank you.)

4. I know who I am. Most days I can look myself in the eye (with aid of a mirror) and say "HEY, YOU DON'T SUCK!"

5. I'm easily amused and disgustingly loyal.

6. I will refer to a "jackass" as a "jackass" or "total, fucking jackass" (when appropriate). I will also insist it makes me charming.

7. I prefer the neighborhood dive rather than the manufactured hipster haunt.

8. I'll look up inane facts for you on the internet.

9. Dogs and kids like me. (Note: If you are a dog or child I will be unable to date you. Blame "the Man" I'm not the girl making the laws).

10. I'm a good partner in crime and in short, a damn good sport.

Hiya~! you have reached Elysium_wings profile, I'm a red head who's into anime, fantasy, and sci-fi (Like Star Trek and Firefly). I like all forms of music; and I'm always wanting to listen to new stuff. I was in theater in high school and continued to enjoy it in college. I enjoy Role playing, and character building. A few board games I really enjoy are Balderdash, Settlers of Catan, Uno, Candy Land, and House on Haunted Hill. I'm also into slash, rough translation it's homo erotica. :) I promise I'm not that scary, I just like my boys. ^~

I have been living in the Minneapolis area for about 1 1/2 years now; after spending the last 5 years of my life in Des Moines Iowa--doing school and other things~ and enjoying all of the activities the twin cities have to offer, (Ren fest, The cultures!! all the LAKES you have, the Midtown Global Market Etc etc..) And I look forward to finding more fun things to do. I am very Extroverted and easy to get along with so don't worry about messaging me!

I am big into music, entertaining company, and traveling. I love the Mall of America and anything fun. I enjoy camping, smores, brats, and summer. I will never forget where I've been. I am optimistic and and open minded. I make the most out of everything I am given.

I like making friends before anything else. It seems that doing it the other way around leads to disaster. No really, don't make me have to smack a bitch. I have given up the big dream that life will all work out to be happily ever after no matter what romantic concept you subscribe to. It's bullshit, and if you think it can happen, then I have some really nice beachfront property to sell you in Upstate New York.

I'm a very strong Myers-Briggs ENFP (Champion / Advocate). Supposedly we are only about 2% - 3% of the population, so I'm a special snowflake. Or something. I'm a great idea person, but I suck at follow through. We are supposedly assertive (nickname: Despot), life-loving (at times), charismatic (duh), passionate (see zodiac sign), experimental (I'll try anything twice) and upbeat (can't win em all). I obviously fail at the upbeat sometimes, but the rest are pretty spot on. Oddly enough no matter how strong the E is in me, I still am seriously shy around new people or in large groups.

I am a fiscal conservative and a social liberal. If the world worked the way I wished it did, I'd be a socialist, but I'm a realist and don't have that much faith in humanity. I'm strongly Libertarian according to the Political Compass. Politics are something I avoid wasting too much time on lately, as school is already stressful enough.

If you're smart enough you can get in touch with me via any IM protocol out there, you just need to figure out how. Maybe we can be friends! Then, we can hang out with my friends, and me with your friends. Then we'll all make more friends!

I'm a "think before you leap" kinda person
Also very analytical
I'm a pacifist
Drugs are not and never will be my style
I hate confrontation
Nonbeliever in god, yet amazed by religion
I'm secretive and considerably introverted
Life is what you make it

I'm a writer, usually of dark humor and children's stories. I love Halloween, reading, ghost stories, movies, and I travel whenever I can. I'm Catholic, a great Harry Potter fan, and have a wonderful imagination.

Punk turned professional! I have found a perfect balance between responsibility and escapism. I have a solid career yet make sure I stay young at heart through my love for music and culture. I am sarcastic, playful, flirtatious and affectionate. In social settings I am more comfortable one on one or in small groups but also enjoy DJing for crowds and being the life of the party. I enjoy mellow nights at home watching movies as well as concerts, dancing, dinner dates and sipping a cocktail in a dimly lit lounge.

hi there, i never know what to say here but here goes...i love to dance, sing off key, rollerblade, hang out, being barefoot and laughing. wanto to know more well i am a leo and that about sums it up...yeah right. give me a shout i love meeting new people, and maybe you will find out more...mwahahahaha!:P

I'm a graduate student, political organizer, progressive, academic who loves vegetarian food and bicycles. My coffee consumption fuels reading on JSTOR, the New Yorker and far too much news.

I also happen to be a bit kinky and non-mono. People would not know this from just meeting me, I could totally meet your mother and she'd think I'm a nice boy.

I guess you could say im the type of person you wouldn't meet normaly. You know the typical proud to be an american, god is everything, prissy average guy....well im none of those things, i enjoy the simple things in life. About me... I'm a 23 almost 24 year old man with short brown hair
and blue eyes. I stand at 5'7" and weigh around 162. Somewhat of an athletic build. although i know exactly what im looking for im not by any means a judgemental person. im probably one of the nicest, non tacky/corny guys you will ever meet..im looking for a real long term relationship with a pretty and intelligent woman... must have a good sense of humor... im all about having fun and enjoying life.. but am serious when i need to be.

Hi! Thanks for acknowledging my existence. My name's Tim, and I'm a lover of life, which in my eyes means also being a lover of learning. I have a thirst for knowledge. Life is a learning process and so the idea of standing still and being stagnant is a frightening state. I believe in smelling the roses every now and then, but they're like a scratch-n-sniff in that they don't smell as good if you sniff them everyday. I'm a shy, kind, empathic, and open-minded person. I'm a realist and idealist hybrid, sometimes leaning one way more than the other.

I'm looking to make a friend or two, but I won't rule out the possibility of something more evolving if there is reason for it to. Also, I won't discriminate in who I message based on where you live! With communications technology being what they are today, it's easy to stay in touch no matter where you're located. Plus, if we live far away from each other, it leaves open the possibility of taking a trip in the future. That is, if you like Minnesota. Or you live in Hawaii! Just kidding... maybe.

I'm an unrepentant nerd who is married to another unrepentant nerd. Books, writing, and movies are a huge part of my life, as are my friends, my family, and my cats.

I'm a 23 year old woman who thinks she is still 18. I party like a rock star and live beyond my means. I move a lot and wish I didn't have to work for a living so I could party all day every day. Unfortunately I can't do that so I do whatever I can to get the bills paid. I waitress, cook, answer the phone, drive around, or pretty much any job I am physically capable of (like fixing the rollers on swathers or building grain bins)! I love my dog and no one gets in between me and her.

About me and who I'd like to date: Hi. Should you decide to contact me here's what I'd love. I'd love you to tell me some things about yourself but, leave something for future conversations. I'd love if you'd consider singing with me even if you can't hold a note. I think being a Rock star in the car is a good thing. Go ahead and dance with me even if you have no rhythm. I mean... why not????

A little about me? Well, I used to decorate sets, paint murals, and my first love was a crayon. So please don't ask me to do any accounting. I simply don't think with that side of my brain. I'm not motivated by things and I tend to take the scenic route.

Regarding the scenic route... Nothing makes me happier than to see it from a saddle. I own two Tennessee Walkers named Lexington and Tucker. I'm pretty passionate about riding. What that means is... I put the Ferragamo's away in boxes and sent those little black dresses off to the consignment store. More often then not, you will find me in a pair of jeans, wearing dusty boots, a smudge of dirt across my cheek, with a piece of hay stuck in my hair. That's because most of my time off is spent down at the barn, either mucking stalls or, saddling up Tucker for a ride. That's really important for you to know because, if you're looking for an all dressed up, never get her hands dirty, kind of a gal... to be perfectly honest, I'm just not her. I've been there and done that. Don't get me wrong... there's nothing wrong with that either... it's just not who I am today. I'm too busy making up for lost sandbox time.

It would be nice if you were versed in multiple areas. I prefer a man who is socially conscious... being a tree hugging, seal saver myself. I'm not opposed to adventure and exploring new possibilities. Here it is to the point... I am a realist who lives in the light.

â??Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.â?? Anonymous

I enjoy keeping things interesting. Goin' out doing assorted things flicks, concerts and running up to cars at red lights pressing my ass against the window and ask them to check the oil. Kids love me.

The details of my life are quite inconsequential.

I'm a native of the Twin Cities, went to college at Gustavus Adolphus, and now work at a local data center doing systems administration and trying not to die of self inflicted boredom. During the evenings I escape this horrible reality with the aid of electronic entertainment, and on weekends I escape this horrible reality with the aid of friends and chemistry. I'd be depressed if I wasn't sure I have it pretty damn good, all things considered. Oh, and I bought a house, so that's pretty sweet.

I'm just this guy, you know?

From Albuquerque, NM, currently living in Saint Paul, MN.

**Update: I currently have a girlfriend whom I've been seeing for about 4 months now. I'm not looking for another relationship, simply new friends/activity partners.
I'm also ridiculously busy with grad school/work/etc, so if I don't get back to you right away, know that I have the best of intentions, but often not the time. :(
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What to say, what to say? I have a BA in Psychology, and am pursuing a career in non-profit health and human services. I spent a year in Istanbul, Turkey, working as a nanny and English teacher before moving to the Cities (a job that I don't particularly ever want to do again...) . I am originally from New Mexico, but have lived in the Midwest for the past 5 years and dig it! I love to be outside on nice days, preferably eating some sort of grilled meat, and/or doing some sort of activity (walk, run, bike, frisbee? YES!).

I consider myself smart and fairly well-read, and love to have high and low brow conversations. I will make a joke out of anything, especially myself. I love movies and music (indie/folk/etc) and try to catch a show at least once a month. I also love to cook (especially for other people). I say I'll try anything once, and I never back down from a challenge--dare me.

I believe that the best way to get to know the core of someone's personality is to read their childhood writings. Fortunately my mom mailed me a stack of mine not long ago.

Hi, my name is louie. I am an average guy who has survived all the misfortunes that life has thrown at me. In the same light I am the most positive person you will every meet. I always know how to treat a lady and will always please the right lady in what ever we do.I give a mean back and or body rub and you could enjoy the best chocolate chip cookies while your relaxing. Drop me a line and let's have some fun!

Hmmm...I never sound like myself in these things. Here goes:

I surround myself with people who support what I love, challenge me, share their passions with me, and keep my mind logical. I appreciate and love music, wit, frankness, Annie Hall, liberals, the color plum, and playing with my nieces.

Over all, I am a work in progress. I used to think I could "fix" everything about me and then I could really start living. That theory didn't really pan out, so I'm going ahead with what I've got. I'm a pretty self-aware person, if not to a fault.

Let's start at the beginning...

I spent my childhood resisting the socially conservative Christian conditioning imposed by private suburban Lutheran School. This instilled in me a deep and lingering repulsion towards dogmatic religion, while simultaneously stimulating my interest in mysticism, religious studies, and ancient history. Life has continued to follow this general trend, though I no longer pray to Satan to deliver me from Jesus and the boredom of suburban life.

On to the Formal...

I studied Psychology at the University of Minnesota, with an emphasis on Behaviorism. I then spent a year in Amsterdam getting my Master's Degree in Mysticism and Western Esotericism. I wrote my masters thesis on the induction of prophetic states of consciousness following the methods of Greek Orthodox Hesychasm, Rabbi Abraham Abulafia, and (my favorite) the 16th century philosopher and heretic Giordano Bruno.

I like to meditate and practice various other spiritual disciplines.

I'm an INFP personality type: (I)ntroverted, i(N)tuitive, (F)eeling, (P)erceiver.

Also, I have been fortunate enough to travel to many many places in my short life. Besides Amsterdam, I also lived in Costa Rica for two months where I studied Spanish and taught English.

Oh my, I haven't updated this for about 4 years, I imagine my self summary has changed a bit in that time.

I am a 24 year old male who likes to have adventures, whether they be inverted and 20 feet in the air, On top of a mountain or conversation based in various locations and settings.

I like to be challenged in pretty much any way, it keeps me on my toes.

I find almost everything interesting in some way.

I am now a 24 year old ADD ninja from the future who likes to climb things...

i dont like to tailk more so u can see me any time because i still in life

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Family is important to me. Yes, I still go home for Sunday dinner. People say I'm a pretty classy guy. So, I guess I'm looking for a classy lady, that isn't afraid to take risks. I ride my motorcycle (when it's nice out), I play in a band (music is my life), tattoos are cool, piercings are cool too (although I don't have any piercings, but I do have tattoos). I love being outside. I like to make people laugh. I live for the adrenaline rush. Everybody is a little wierd, even me, so that's a must too. You gotta be wierd.

I am...
still wandering in the wilderness. I overthink everything. I criticize too much and create too little. I can never live up to my own standards... But for all that, I guess I'm good at making other people happy, and maybe that's all that matters.

I like... woodcuts, color theory, phonetics, cobalt drier, linseed oil, all flavors of quarks, taxonomy, family crests, Jorge Luis Borges and...

...nothing else.

well first and most important ..i dont respond to ads without a picture...sorry but i want to see what your workin with! so ive been doing this on-line dating for a while now and to say the least it is very interesting! i have met some great guys , just not the one for me or i wasnt the one for them. im still very optomistic with my search and know the right one is out there for everyone!just a few reminders..if you are unemployed, dont have a car and/or live with your parents DO NOT contact me..i live a stable life and expect the same.i dont date men who smoke and i dont drink so if that bothers you or you think your drinking style would bother me its best you go to the next profile. also im not on here to find some easy lay, i can find that..its a real relationship i want...other than that i think we could talk!!

I'm a confident woman who is striving to become the best person I can be. I'm educated, liberal and sarcastic. I'm happiest when giving to others, and most frustrated by ignorance. Poor grammar makes me crazy, and I love the smell of campfire. Also, I think mushrooms are pretty great.

I have been living in MN for several months and I am looking to meet people. I would like to make casual friends and special (more than casual) friends. I enjoy going to movies, riding my bike, reading and I am open to most other activities.

I'm very curious and indecisive. Couldn't live without animals. Easily lost in my own imagination. Extremely high energy levels make it hard for me to sleep unless I've bounced, ran, biked, danced, hiked etc. I love MN. You might not be able to tell if I'm joking or not...I almost always am.

Ted: â??Thereâ??s no stigma to online dating anymore.â??
Barney: â??Yeah right, thatâ??s why everyone always keeps saying â??thereâ??s no stigma.â??â??
-How I Met Your Mother

I have the uncanny gift/curse of liking almost everyone I meet, or at the very least viewing them to be full of unrealized potential. Two problemsâ??one, this makes me a bad gossip partner (I just look all wide-eyed and confused when youâ??re busy bashing that asshole from work who probably richly deserves it); two, I have so many friendships that I take seriously that I often run out of time for them all.

I easily become highly (scarily?) involved with tasks momentarily at hand. This task involvement persists to such an extent that I sometimes forget to do things like eat.

I sing songs from time to time: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oNfGK34zuU
-My friends make fun of me for staring at the camera and for the ridiculous goatee I used to have on this video. You can judge for yourself how bad the situation is.

Music is good. Also love a good conversation--you know, a good rant about what is currently destroying America's soul, or a laugh-uproariously-about-that -thing-that-you-can't-believe-you-actually-said-when-drunk conversations. Or give me any game (Scattegories? mini-golf? cribbage?) and Iâ??ll use my preternatural ability to focus on trivial things to systematically crush your hopes of success and emerge victorious. Let me tell you, Iâ??m ice-cold on a mini golf course. Ice cold.

1) Aaron likes to whip stuff
2) Aaron likes to play guitar
3) Aaron likes to party
4) Aaron likes to grunt to indicate his pleasure/displeasure
5) Aaron likes to sleep
6) Aaron likes to start pillow fights
7) Aaron likes to.... just watch youâ??ll find out
8) Aaron likes to argue
9) Aaron likes to post pics on here, mind if he posts one of you?
10) Aaron likes to pose as a burlesque performer from Michigan charging people to watch him take a bath

Disappointingly "Aaron likes to be on top." just missed out... ?

Other things about me:
Hobbies include taking candy from babies. Only fat oneâ??s mind. Just doing my bit for the US' obesity epidemic...

I'm extremely sporty; I run, cycle, play Hockey and softball.

I think animal testing is a terrible idea; they get all nervous and give the wrong answers.

I also drive fast, refuse to take sh*t from anyone, and am generally an ***hole, but you know...the fun kind thatâ??s impossible to hate. A loveable affable rogue...

-I'm the guy who is perfectly comfortable making the first move; whether it be a romantic kiss on the doorstep or throwing you up against a wall and making out with you HARD...in the rain.

I'm not taking this too seriously. I don't play mind games, nor do I placate low self esteem. Until you impress me I will treat you like my bratty little sister...

DISCLAIMER: I come with a money back guarantee. If you are not completely satisfied within 30 days you can return yourself back to mediocre guys and boring times free of charge. Hehe

My self summary hmm? well what i can say is that i'm not very good at filling out these boxes but if you get to know i'm sure you'll like me...So does the 100 hundred character minimum mean like a hundred letters or a hundred words? LOL well thats some joke why would you have to do that to move on to the next step or level? Even though this website is mostly bullshit with there tests and questions. It doesnt make any difference I don't believe but I'd like to be proved wrong!!!

Jesus Christ is the Lord of Lords, which means He is also Lord of my life and yours. He is my Savior, my Friend, my Brother, and my King.

i can be a goofy person around my closest friends/relatives. Generally, though, i'm a pretty down-to-earth, straightforward person. it can take a while to get me out of my shell, but i make a fiercely loyal friend when i get to know a person; that is, unless i dislike them.

i enjoy experiencing God's creation; i like hiking, canoeing, kayaking, and horseback riding (though i've only gotten to do it once! sad). i enjoy reading and writing (particularly devotions and lessons/sermons), and practically anything artistic. i like going to museums (i'm a history buff, what can i say). i love tea! i like coffee, black. i enjoy random and obscure old things (especially old books). i love children. i love helping people. Acts of service/quality time are my two primary love languages. i love people, but i also enjoy solitude when it's just God and me. i love singing! i have a hymnal that i'll just take out and start leafing through, singing my favorite hymns.

i'm certainly not perfect. i don't realize all my faults, but the Holy Spirit is working in me, sanctifying me unto Jesus. i'm a work in progress, just like us all. i can hardly wait to see Jesus! It has been a long and difficult road (probably not as long or difficult as most). I used to argue against God, and i did not always realize that Jesus Christ was who He said He was; that is, until He filled me with the Holy Spirit and opened my eyes to the truth. Now, only because of the work of the Holy Spirit, i believe and i love Jesus.

Currently I am working at UPS and training at an MMA (Mixed Martial Arts) gym. I will most likely be having a fight sometime in spring. I was previously in the Air Force as a C-17 Loadmaster and I had a lot of fun with that but now I am back home. I took a little bit of college and will be going back soon once I figure out exactly what I would like to do. I have always been the class clown or funny guy that can have fun in almost any situation. I love to tell jokes and make people laugh. My favorite kind of music is Metal music. I have been listening to it for as long as I can remember. I love to go out to concerts whenever I get a chance. I have always loved piercings and tattoos. I have six piercings, two of them are just lobe piercings but they are 2 gauges. The other 4 are a little harder to explain but very fun and you will just have to see for yourself. I love going out to Buffalo Wild Wings to get a beer and hang out with friends. I enjoy playing lacrosse and hockey whenever I can. I like to watch movies all the time. I like comedy, action, horror, military and kung fu movies. Feel free to ask if you have any questions for me!

What you see is what you get. I'm an open book. I teach martial arts, make webpages, do home remodeling, and don't get bored easily. Always up for a chat as I am a night owl.

I'm probably a bad guy...certainly a naughty one. Seeking furtive, exciting encounters and random acts of passion without commitment or consequence. In other words, just like most everyone else...

I'm orally bi but only when the mood strikes. I'm looking for daytime encounters, chat from my office, nothing that requires too much effort - I'm lazy, too....

I have a lot of different interests and things I do for fun. The ideal match would be someone who feels the same way and is willing to try something new. I think its best to start a conversation to see if there is common interest with the hopes of finding something long lasting...but if that doesn't work out, I'm always down for making new friends! I'm seriously looking for someone who feels the same way. I figured I'd give this a try.

I have witty/sarcastic humor sometimes. I should also mention that I have several tattoos, so if those bother you I'm probably not your guy. I'm open/honest and don't typically like to sugar-coat things. Not a typical Minnesotan in that way I guess. Love the Twins, Vikings, British television, politics, friends, happy hours, history, art, travel, outdoors, my dog and on and on....

52 yo divorced male that takes likes to try new things. This is apparently one of them! Can be witty, sharp and intellectual, as well as laid back and funny.
Tend to be somewhat shy at first, but warm up with some coaxing. Changes in my life have been challenging but I am a fighter and have a good outlook on what life has to offer. I can become very motivated when I want something bad enough....That can cut both ways.
I can be satisfied with good conversation

I love reading, writing, and contemplating the human experience. A sociologist at heart, I'm always up for conversation on religion, consumerism, individuality, power, and criminology, to name a few. I play a few instruments, sing and thoroughly enjoy dancing. My bike is my primary mode of transportation, and I like it that way. I love nature and do my best to live sustainably.